Imagine you finally…
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Take an actual rest day (without filling it in with nonsensical “productive” things)
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Make decisions without running them by 3 friends, 2 therapy worksheets and your astrological chart first
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Stop staring at that calligraphy set for 3 months before finally letting yourself buy it (and then letting it collect dust for another 6)
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Post that poem on Instagram without justifying why you’re sharing it
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Wear that “too much” outfit to the grocery store instead of saving it for a “special occasion”
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Spout off about your killer tarot skills without going “okay, I know this sounds woo, but…”
TL;DR: You want to embody all that confidence you’ve worked to uncover instead of just intellectually understanding it.
"A much needed reminder for me that I'm inherently creative & poetic."
“Dylan planned prompts with enough guidance that I had a direction to go, but they were loose enough that my own creativity could take a random turn here or there and be very much myself. The biggest thing is that I finally used “the nice notebook” because this workshop made me feel worthy enough to use my nice things. That might seem small but it was huge for me to decide to use this notebook for things that weren’t already planned out. Finding the poetry and letting it flow naturally, rather than trying to form it into a vision I tried to achieve, was a HUGE change from how I normally write. It was so freeing. I loved this entire experience.”
— Caitlin
Update: it’s a year later, and Caitlin is still using their “nice” notebook for their free form, unplanned poetry!
Cool As You Are is for you if...
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You’ve got a stack of self-help books and 47 open tabs of workbooks. But what you really need is someone to help you translate that knowledge into real-life moments.
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You’re done with the ‘constantly growing’ hamster wheel. You don’t need another self-discovery journey - you need support to settle into who you already are.
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Your notes app is full of ideas you’re “saving for the right time” (hi! It’s time!)
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You catch yourself over-justifying a “messy” (aka lived-in) house or why you spent time on a non-sellable hobby
DETAIL ORIENTED? ME TOO.
Let's get into the nitty gritty.
No one’s 6 months will look exactly the same. Below you'll find a breakdown of Cool As You Are. When you submit your application, we can:
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chat more about what your specific needs are
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break down what our time together might look like
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(also- you'll never have to hop on a "sales call" with me unless you specifically want to chat beforehand.)
Here's how it works:
Over the course of 6 months, we’ll have 12 1:1 sessions (each lasting 60-75 min).
In between, we’ll be able to chat via Slack (available M-F 10am - 4pm CST).
The Framework:
The Cool Audit
A continuous touch point throughout our months together, you’ll use this audit to find:
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Where am I waiting for external validation to do what I want?
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What gives me that “fuck yeah” feeling when making decisions?
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What good shit am I using- just cause? (the “good paint, the “good” plates, the “good” dress- it’s time.)
Creativity Catalyst
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Develop creative rituals soothe your soul instead of asking you the same 3 journaling prompts over and over again
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Cringe and make it anyway- with built-in support, to make “terrible”, unprofitable, but still lovely creative work
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Build your ability to get out of your own head when the overthinking sets in
Integration Station
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Pull the focus from “good vibes only” & build out a life that reflects (as realistically as possible) what you are craving in your bone marrow
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Create a personal playbook for handling moments of self-doubt, meltdowns, & chronic brain loop-de-loops
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Bridge the gap from “knowing you should” to actually doing - bc you’re creating spaces that work for you
Cost: $2,500
Choose from:
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Pay in Full: $2,500
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3 monthly payments of $833
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6 monthly payments of $416
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Custom payment plans available through Affirm or Klarna
What Are Next Steps?
Does Cool As You Are seem like a good fit for you? (Or you've got some strong suspicions but have questions/need to find out more?)
Here's what to do next:
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Click any of the buttons (or scroll all the way down) to fill out the brief application form.
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This form lets me know that you're interested in the program. It does not lock you into anything.
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After you submit your form, you'll hear back from me within 48 hrs.
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We can connect via email, Google Meet or Slack to answer any questions and see if this is the right decision for you.
Stephanie
"I was seeking help with my spirituality from feeling shame that I just couldn't get in my current path. I got more trust with myself that radiated into all other aspects of my life. I didn't feel judged by Dylan. Her perfectly tailored questions helped me suss out what I needed sussed! I feel like the ground underneath me is firmer- that's been lacking for so long. She's a gift!"
Diane
“I was feeling in a creative rut and exhausted from always having to ‘perform’ and execute with my writing. Dylan’s writing challenge cracked me open and let me reconnect with my inner teen in the best way. The prompts inside carve a path to your edgy creativity. Dylan's work is magical, truly.”
Fi
"The prompts really helped me connect to my younger self and unearth memories that were in the corners of my mind. Definitely got me in the zone to express and connect with an agro teen me without over-intellectualizing the process."
MEET YOUR COACH
I'm Dylan King
A Trauma Informed Spiritual Coach for neurodivergent folks who are done with:
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Advice that’s only good for pinterest- not real life
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Getting told to “just be authentic” (except not like that bc you’re neurodivergent and that’s “weird”)
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Masking so hard they can’t even write an honest response in their journal
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Putting that cool thing on the backburner bc they haven’t “earned it”
You don’t have to be completely healed to enjoy your life. You don’t have to be perfect or even run at full throttle towards your next goals 24/7 (hello burnout!).
I believe you (YOU, not a vague you- the YOU reading this!) can do more than just chitter on the surface like most people do about being authentic and being human and accommodating yourself and being cozy and creative.
I believe you can embody it. You can take all that work you’ve done and let it live and breathe in your real life, instead of always in your head. You just need the right support. And I’d love to help.
xx Dylan
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DO YOU HAVE CERTIFICATIONS?Yup! I have certifications in: Life & Success Coaching Neurolinguistic Programming Hypnotherapy Emotional Freedom Techniques TIME Techniques Meditation Guide + Practitioner I am also have a BFA in Performing Arts, and have completed Trauma Informed Training.
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IS THIS THERAPY?I am not a licensed mental health care professional. If you’re looking for support with a diagnosed mental health condition or trauma responsive care, this may not be the right fit for you. However- I have supported folx who did not want to work with a therapist or worked in conjunction with a therapist. If you’re unsure, please reach out so we can discuss further.
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WHEN DO YOU RESPOND IN SLACK?I check slack multiple times a day, Monday through Friday between 10am and 4pm Central standard time. I am committed to responding within 24 hours but consistently respond the same day. I am highly active and involved in our communication. Everyone uses Slack differently. Some people choose to use it every day, some once a week, some even less! But across the board- I am eager and ready to be all in!
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WHAT IS THE COST?$5000 for 6 months.
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ARE THERE PAYMENT PLANS?So many!! Ones I can create through my own system, Affirm, Klarna and we can even look at making some barters. Let's talk about it :)
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I STILL HAVE A QUESTIONNp! You can either fill out an application and we can talk through some questions or you can email hello@queenofgrit.com